#4 They don't understand why you're so expensive. This just means that they don't value what you do and that no one is building the value of the dentistry in their mind. They just get a bill. Remember, 80% of what you do in dentistry is elective. One of the most common complaints we've heard from the public is about fees for dental care. Let's face it, most people don't understand what good quality dentistry costs. They'll say, "He charged me $1,000 for a root canal!" And we'll calmly explain that that cost is around the going rate. This generally helps because in the end, people don't want to be taken advantage of, and all they need is to have the cost fully explained. Cost is one of the main reasons why people avoid the dentist in the first place. They think it's expensive (and insurance doesn't pay for it, they lament!) and all they're paying for is discomfort. Many believe that six-month recall is a myth created by the ADA. The truth is, in order to bring patients into comprehensive care, they have to appreciate the value of what you do. This means your staff, office environment, technology and you as the doctor have to communicate to the patient why they should value the care you provide.
#5 Their insurance changed, and you don't take it. There's not much you can do about that, right? At 1-800-DENTIST, we ask consumers if they are willing to go out of their plan for the right dentist, and often they will. People want good dentistry, not necessarily the cheapest. For those patients who are contemplating leaving because of an insurance plan change, let them know you would still like to treat them even though they're on a closed plan. Hopefully they will find value in the relationship and some will stay. Others will come back when they don't like the care they've gotten somewhere else.
#6 They are embarrassed about how long they've put off their recall. This may seem strange, but people feel uncomfortable about being chided for neglecting their exams and cleanings. Some people would rather go to an entirely new dentist rather than face a dentist they've avoided for a long time. Don't make your patients feel guilty. Let them know you're there to treat them when they are ready, and ask how you can make it more convenient for them.
#7 They don't think you care. Many patients think you don't care about them personally. It's very easy to get caught up in the clinical side of what you're doing and very often your staff is multi-tasking and doesn't pay proper attention to the patient. It only takes a moment to let your patient know that you understand their fear and their discomfort and suddenly they feel cared for. They don't expect dentistry to feel good, which is all the more reason to take the time to acknowledge what they're going through. Otherwise you're just telling them that all they represent is income to you. And no one likes feeling that way.
Successful practices make their highest priority ensuring their patients know they care. This can often take as little as a minute of your time, or your staff's time, asking about their kids, telling a joke or sharing a story. My dentist was doing a rather long and unpleasant crown restoration on me and right in the middle he stopped and said, "Why don't we let your mouth calm down a little bit since we've been doing a lot of work here? So, what's new?" After two minutes of talking, he resumed and completed the treatment. Instantly, he showed how much he cared about my comfort. With a little effort, it can take only a few minutes to turn someone into a long-term patient.
The simple solution most often is communication, the kind of interaction that shows patients that they are in a relationship with you about their lifelong oral health. Show them you care, relate to them, equip your office with the latest technology and for goodness sake, tell them what you do. Getting new patients is tough enough. It's worth the effort to keep them.